Does physical appearance really matter?
- Zoe Aurora
- Oct 4, 2020
- 3 min read
An ideal type. So what is your ideal type? I bet it would be a slim, tall, fair, handsome/pretty looking boy/girl. People are so much obsessed over this that everyone wants to be that 'ideal' version. So what happens when you are not fair and slim. Oh, the taunt and teasing you get. Of course, people love you, but they don't love you enough to accept you the way you are. That's why the current trend of reducing weight through exercise and gym. Of course, being fit is not a bad idea but it's not good when doing such things under the influence of others.
You have to understand that we all are different from others in our body and what a wonderful thing it is, but you won't appreciate the things that you have got and want it like others do; maybe that's why we have started to grow tired of life.
People will always judge you even if you are too fat or slim if you eat too much or too little. Some people would accept you the way you are. So you have to start considering; that everyone you meet will judge you at some point, it is up to you how to take those comments. People would want you to show the real you, but they won't accept your version; they would like their 'ideal-version' more and would, of course, compare you with people. Now here comes our most favorite topic 'You should try to do it like this, they did it better' why at every point in time should we have to compare with someone else. Oye hello, excuse me, I am a better version of me than I was yesterday; and that's enough for me. Why should I give a test for which I have prepared nothing about? (oops! sorry for the comparison but, it's exam time right now I can't help it)
Your family would probably be the first one to tell you about this. You are fat, too skinny, are not fair, and so on goes the comparison. But you know what, maybe we are meant to be the way we are because there might be a reason we are like this. Of course, it's up to you if you want to change, and a change initiated by us should be from our mind, otherwise it will just go in vain. Do those things which you can complete wholeheartedly.
My mom would always tell me you should lose weight, have gained too much weight. But yet she was the one who always gave me food in more quantity. What can I say, she is my mom, all mom's are like this. Right? So people will tell you things but act the opposite the next second. So it's up to you to choose what good for you. What comments should you accept from people, what are the things that you want to change in yourself irrespective of what people think about it?
Coming on to the color of our skin, it's not right to judge someone by outer appearance, but when we first encounter someone, we always go on their external appearance and vibes. After meeting so many different types of people, I can say the most important thing that you need to look in a person is their vibes, and if they don't vibe with you, maybe, they are not just meant for you.
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