Ignore the rules that bind you.

So lets start with the article I read about in today's magazine about "Oh, the wounds we carry". So basically its about how we regret telling telling our mother bad words or accusing them of what they had done to us like not allowing their daughters you got out for field trips,camping and what not not..

I am going to share my views on this topic and yes even answer a question what is the role of mother in a daughters life?

Let's get to my views on this topic. Firstly all parents are not alike you might have seen it yourself I might say even experienced it. So why do parents behave differently when their role of guiding us is the same, yes its because of our nature, our nature of taking things differently but ultimately our goal is same to get to learn something very important from ones life's and learning is a thing we get only when done alone. I know anybody won't understand how do we learn alone so let's take a example: From the days of childhood we have learned in a group or may I say a class, but at that time nothing mattered cause we just had nothing in our mind(except about what all things we can play after this lecture is over). But as time advanced our thinking evolved and yes the thinks that teachers taught can't be get across our mind I don't know the reason why(or maybe i know cause they never really had interest in any of these things) so we started learning things on our own. So we all know parents at some point had stopped teaching us and and got us enrolled in coaching classes but where the same scene continues...

So basically we learn our lessons ourselves and anyone can only guide us not take that decision from us of what to do in our life. We as a child always had some dreams of our own which would always be hidden within us never have we ever shared so things that we want in our life cause the society we live in makes so much issues that even are parents are forced to think about and in this condition you will be there on your own(and I am not talking about all parents cause some parents have gone through all this and would stay with you through thick and thin) and that time you will be thinking what if i have been an independent?What if I had kept my choices and decision to my self.

I know everyone want their child to be independent a successful person and that's not oops sorry never possible if we keep our children bonded to us. Cause this society will take the shape we are giving it and by keeping our daughters hidden nothing is going to happen, just that world will lose some of its talented people in various field. If this society is bad there is always a way to over that may our daughters stronger more independent so they can stand for themselves, stand for their rights even if that fight may be even against our loved ones.

Now to answer that question we all know parents never think bad of their children but still by preventing to take steps on their own they are preventing their children successful steps towards their goal. Yes you have experienced life in your era now its time for us to live in our era and yes we would surely take your lessons with us and use it whenever need cause old is gold right.

These where just me views surely many will get offended. But its my view you can't change the things that I feel is right.

Everyone has a right to express their feelings and if you don't like it you better ignore it other even I have a option of ignorance.

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