Self help

We can't help those people who don’t want to be helped and we can't keep healing those people who just keep asking for it. Some people need help but some are just lazy to work for their goals. I always used to think that we should help everyone even without someone asking for it. I would give it my all. But as time passed I got to know some people are only there for your help so they can enjoy their life. It's like giving it your all, but for others work.

I learned that people should be kept at a distance because when they get near you they just think about using you and get things from you. Of course, some people are not like that but to reach them we have to go through so many things. It's like we have to wait and understand a person carefully before trusting and letting on into our life. If we do otherwise it becomes utter chaos in our life.

I have got so many friends but all just come to me for help but when I would be needing something there would just be some people whom I can count with my fingers. It's not like I really ask for help but I do ask very rarely so I do expect that they would help me. Some so many people even help strangers. Even someday I want to do something big and help everyone in need. We feel good when we help someone and being a kind person we are we would always feel guilty that we did not help someone who asked for it. We need to understand that we can't help everyone in our life and we can't just go on doing things for people that we think are better for them.

People always used to confide in me. Yes, those are secrets, and they do ask for help to solve it. Of course, I would do it willing but it just takes away a major part of our energy. Helping them survive we always end up getting exhausted. We do need to help, but the most important thing is taking care of our self. Saying no without feeling guilty is important so that we don't always go on running to help everyone out there. Help yourself to help them first. In this process of helping we always lose our self and start doubting our self. To get that true self back we always need to work our self to love our self first, to give us more priority than we can give anyone else. Spending time alone so we understand ourselves better, about things we love, like. What makes us sad, what should we do to get back in a good mood? These are the way of finding ourself again. But most important is to do the things that make you happy, ignore people, and retreating to your shell for some me-time away from all the people and drama and rediscovering yourself back again.

Now when the time comes that you are back again you will know what you need to do. Who are really in need of your help and who are just lazing around. And more than anything we would enjoy being ourselves and never even feel guilty about anything that goes on in someone else life. Your job is to do yourself so you better do it properly.

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